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I love hearing guys giving advice about women ...

I say forget her... shes with him. You dont deserve to wait until she gets dumped imo. And she might not even want to be going out with someone after the breakup, cause she prob be hurt. Also because shes witha asshole, you might feel u like her in that way, when ur just jealous that shes with this douche and not somelike you?..but im not you so I cant say if thats really why.

Also i disagree, with "nice guys finish last". Ever thought its "Boring guys who finish last"?

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"Who controls the present controls the past. And, who controls the past controls the future" - George Orwell

dude, if she thinks his ass-hole moves are funny, stick w/ her cuz she may end up being like a douche (not sure if that's the kind of person he is, but just a heads-up!) it's like sticking w/ and older brother/sister and gigi, u can't forget about someone who u have known for a long time, and liked for a long time, that's like going "i'm gonna play this game" 95% of the game completed "meh, forget this game, no point" grams, try my idea man, it's worked for me before

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"In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant. Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me." - James Stewart

They have gone out on those dates (walking in the park, going out for a picnic, etc.) but shes with this asshole...Even if youve known anyone for that long why sit around WAITING for them? When you brought everything to the table. Seems like a lose lose situation to me. Im not saying to stop being friends with her, but I feel you, Grams, shouldnt be left hanging. Thats all im saying.

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"Who controls the present controls the past. And, who controls the past controls the future" - George Orwell

Its not that "Nice guys finish last", Its that guys that arent confident adn agressive lose. You can be agressive and not be an asshole. A girl wants a guy she feels safe and confortable with. Someone who will protect her and someone to take charge. A girl is turned on more by you making the moves and secisions than having to decide everything. You dont always need to ask questions and make sure shes alright. The other thing is girls dont really look at a guy and think, " Oh I'll just be with him for a little while, doesnt matter if hes does this or that." A lot of girls look at the whole picture and his qualities.

If she did ever have feelings for you then shes probably over it cause no move was made. She moved on and found someone that does want her. Even if to you hes an ass for what ever reason, to her , it's someone that made the move first.


You may say that you guys are really close, and I will never really know how close you guys are, but you might feel closer to her than she does to you. You telling her that thais guy is an ass can make you look jealous and doesnt always turn out to be a good thing. Like I said in my other message, best thing to do is wait it out. When the time comes, sweep her off her feet. Go in there, take charge, and show her wa real man.


And yes all you kids can use this advice as well. I've learned it in my experience, abd I have a lot of it. =]

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Yeah like gigi said. its botring guys that finish last. didnt see that til now.

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im bored.

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i'm not, lets race, you'll be dead last

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"In this world, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant. Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me." - James Stewart

girls fuck with your mind

ahhhh my mind is fucked... but i still love it

o and holy shit all he just needs a few peoples advice not an army

dude, apparently things are different in the south.

Those qualities can be there... but if your not lying to her about where you were for the last few weeks, or if your not trying to fuck every friend she has...then more than likely...

she's not interested.

Its the challenge of making the bad guy a good guy...and even if they were to succeed...

they will dump that guy and find another headcase.

I've met some of the sweetest girls in the world. Brilliant girls, very very educated.

I could show them a picture of their boyfriend ******* some random girl and they would swear up and down that there was a fire in there and he was putting it out w/ his penis.

...seriously.

Some girls just want to be treated like shit. There's nothing you or I or anyone else can do about it.

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shit won't work, lexi was right on the first page. pick her up after that kid fucks up if he's a total douchebag things, perfect time for the pick up.

I think theres truth in most of what everyone said here Grams. Just take it all in, and do what you have to do. And remember man, people make their own choices, so if she really wants to be with him, maybe shes got to learn the hard way, or not at all.

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hate to say this, but ive experienced something similar b4, i just went and found another girl to forget about her.

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dude just move on and find someone more compatible. no need to waste your time if shes into D-bags. While shes doing her thing, do yours, and if somehow you two meet up in the future again, serendipity, do what you gotta do to get her. But dont kidnap her or anything like that, that's illegal. good luck! o yea and flowers are a key to a women's pants, remember that

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Makeshift Patriot

agreed i have a best friend thats a girl we were real close... but we both went our ways