ColeLT1 wrote:
You really only have 2 options that will work out better for you:
Tell the girl that the dude is a douche, give reason, don't tell her that you <3 her, she will connect the 2 and think you are saying he is douche just so she will dump him for you. She may reject your claim of douchbaggery, then when it doesn't work out, you were right! The other option is just to wait.
sounds good, but there's 1 more option, she may have hung out w/ him and when grams tells her he's a douche, it might be something she doesn't want to hear and she'll stay away from grams
honestly, give her a heads-up and let her make the decision, if he breaks up w/ her, go out on a date, like the movies (well u can call it that, but it's really just to help her get through her crisis lol), tell her that you like her, i mean, you guys' will still end up as friends, right? just tell her it's a phase if she says no

, get a friend to ask her if she has something for you, or get a friend to PRETEND that he's telling ur secret (like this "dude, grams likes you, no joke, he just told us, so i was jw, do you like him? if you do, that would be so awesome!") these are just some of my ideas, gl grams, i hope you get her
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