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Im having girl trouble, nobody here strikes me as a player aside from gigi but im looking for insite regaurdless. Ive know this girl for about 7years now that ruffley when i started HS. Weve meet became bestfriends and nothing-more. We`ve know each other, and how each other thinks for so long it was just to hard to get close enouph to advance into a "Relationship". Now this bitch is seeing a friend of someone i know, And i know for a fact this kids a piece of shit. There isnt anything u can tell a girl that knows u like her to beleive you, so what do i do??obviously i <3 this gurl

Have you tried talking to her and telling her how you feel about her going out with him and how you feel about her?

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You should maybe lay some hints on her, like: "Omg, Spencer from the hills is such a douche to Heidi. Cause he tells her lies and hes UGLY...!!"

But for real she shouldnt just take ur advice for granted.

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"Who controls the present controls the past. And, who controls the past controls the future" - George Orwell

Oya, you call her a bitch but say u <3 her...

WHAT DA FUCK


Your soo drunk lawl

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"Who controls the present controls the past. And, who controls the past controls the future" - George Orwell

Dude, here's what you do. Just be straight up with her and say:

Hey (insert girl name) can we talk for just a second. K, we've been friends forever so you know that I want nothing but good things for you. That's why I feel like I need to let you know that (insert douche's name here) is a douche because (insert reason for being a douche) and he's not good for you. Also, we've been friends for such a long time now and I've really gotten to know the real you, and I really like the real you. So I was thinking, like would you wanna go (insert recreation her examples: movie, coffee, food, etc.).

That should do it. I'm like Montel Williams, BYAA!!

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ahh i can picture orange playing the tourettes clip now lol.


but yea like my best advice is if you REALLY like her...let her date him and break her heart if he is the douche you say he is. She wants to have her own douchey experience w/ him firsthand. Eventually it won't work out but you'll be a good friend to her like before to help her pick up the pieces when its over she'll realize what a great guy you are.

^^ Terrible advice! (sorry Lexi <3)

Since you guys have been friends for so long she'd be mad at you for not telling her why this guys a complete douche.

Here's what you do:



I'm like Maury Povich, BYAA!!

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Theres risks to everything Grams....either one of those could work out or backfire. Im no expert, but usually I just lay down the facts and let them speak for me. I also make sure thats its not about me.

You know more about relationships than most of us here, so I know deep down in your heart, you know what you have to do. You just need that bit of approval to get you going. Im having an issue thats somewhat similiar to that right now, so hang in there Grams. Go sweep that girl off her feet, and make sure that piece of shit gets whats coming to him.

KEEP IT REAL SON!!1

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Haha that only worked with your mom!!!11!!!

jks <3<3<3<3

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My advice is the same as Lexi's. You dont just let her go break her heart (and yours), you tell her the reason why he's not a good person. Then you just leave the decision up to her and dont ask her out like in Mav's tutorial back there~!. She's not a ball bouncing between two goalies here.

If she finds truth in anything you say about him then good for you, otherwise it will be her loss man dont feel bad we all been through similar relationships. Life goes on.


Good luck

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Dude, women don't listen. If you tried to stop her all you would do is look like a whiny cock blocker. You'd risk starting shit with people who you probably wouldn't need to start shit with and lose her as a friend anyways.

SO. with that being said..

All you can do is sit back and wait for her to

A: get pregnant and he leaves her
B: get an STD and he leaves her
C: marry the dick and he leaves her
D: all of the above

General rule of thumb. You treat a girl like a princess she's going to leave you because your not a challenge. You treat a girl like shit...She'll stick to you like mud. The shithead will always win.

It's just how it goes. Sorry Grams, wish I could have told you what you wanted to hear.

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Dude, thats bad to hear.

What I would do is wait till he breaks up wit her, then help her out, she might understand how much you like her.

Just keep being friends and after they break up, you could have a chance w/ her.

I hope it goes okay Grams.

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Got any questions? PM me and i'll try and help.

“You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life.” - Winston Churchill

Make a tape of the guy and show it to her?
Or take pictures or something ^^

Gl with whatever you'll do

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You really only have 2 options that will work out better for you:
Tell the girl that the dude is a douche, give reason, don't tell her that you <3 her, she will connect the 2 and think you are saying he is douche just so she will dump him for you. She may reject your claim of douchbaggery, then when it doesn't work out, you were right! The other option is just to wait.

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A: get pregnant and he leaves her
B: get an STD and he leaves her
C: marry the dick and he leaves her
D: all of the above

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Hmmm multiply choice, oh how i hate it so much.



dude, listen to me everyones advice here FUCKING SUCKS!!! the best thing you can do is find where he lives then send him a bomb package that when he opens it a flag pops out and says "BOOM", then the next day you send him another one and it will be an actual bomb. , then when she finds out hes dead she will be so sad and come to you and thats when u swipe her up...
i dont know though i only think this will work if u want to go to prison for about 50years. but hey tis worth it no?


ya but for real bro just give things time. if you and other people know hes a douche then i am sure she will catch on quite quickly it just may take time, becuase they say "love blinds all things". you just gotta give it sometime. i hope things work out for the best grams.

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